Bright Horizons At Del Mar

I’m not sure there is anything more heart breaking than a mother watching her child suffering.  All I know my daughter is pain. All she feels is desperation. She tries to cry out for help, but soon learns that we are not there for her.  No matter how loud she cries, she can't stop or change what is happening. No matter what she does, the pain will not stop. I would wish I could be the one that is there for her  in time. So she wouldn’t have to go through it. 

Imagine the infant who one day cries and gets fed, and the next day cries and goes hungry. One day smiles and is kissed and hugged. The next day smiles and is ignored..There was love one minute and disdain the next. Affection that was given in abundance for no reason and then taken away without cause. The child has no ability to predict or influence the behavior of the adults. The narcissist loves a child only as an extension of themselves at first, and then as a loyal subject. So they will pay attention to the child only when it makes them feel good.

We were children. Even someone with an idyllic childhood who is only trying to remember the lovely things which happened to them will scratch their head and wonder who gave them that doll in their birthday, or who give them a warm hug at my first day at school or who sing a beautiful song for them. You see, even happy memories are hard to piece together — so imagine how hard it is to collate all of the trauma, to pull together all of the things that a child have to for trying to push away for so many years. 

How do you love people who are violent to you.?

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